About my book
This book is not about what broke me.
It is about what loved me—until I learned how to love myself the same way.
What This Book Explores
A Life Lived in Service
Through the example of Sai Ma—a woman who lived devotion through service, dignity, and unwavering compassion—I came to understand how unconditional love:
• Creates safety without control
• Restores dignity without hierarchy
• Encourages authenticity without fear
• Translates faith into daily action
• Prepares us to meet life without abandoning ourselves
Each chapter offers a reflection drawn from lived experience, followed by a Spiritual Pearl of Wisdom and a short mantra, inviting readers to apply these insights to their own lives.
What This Book Is — and Is Not
This book is not a trauma memoir, though survival exists in its background.
It is not a manifesto or doctrine.
It does not ask the reader to believe—only to notice.
It is an invitation to recognize the difference between love that conditions and love that liberates, and to see how that distinction quietly shapes every relationship we enter—including the one we have with ourselves.
The deeper journey of survival, sovereignty, and transformation is explored in a companion work, Becoming A Queen.
How to Read This Book
This book can be read slowly or opened at any chapter. Each reflection stands on its own, yet together they form an arc—from learning unconditional love, to choosing it, to living it forward.
On this site, you’ll find selected excerpts from each chapter, accompanied by photographs and moments from real life. The full reflections are available in the book.